Danger Of Takhbib: damaging another person's Household
Damaging another person's household is a great sin, causing households to Muslim couples be destroyed and dispersed. Keep in mind that the biggest achievement for Satan are damaging Muslim households and resulted in divorce, so that this includes helping make the Devil (Iblis) program.
Note the following, from the hadeeth narrated Jabir ' anhu of the Prophet sallallaahu ' alaihi wa sallam said,
إِنَّ إِبْلِيْسَ يَضَعُ عَرْشَهُ عَلَى الْمَاءِ ثُمَّ يَبْعَثُ سَرَايَاهُ فَأَدْنَاهُمْ مِنْهُ مَنْزِلَةً أَعْظَمُهُمْ فِتْنَةً يَجِيْءُ أَحَدُهُمْ فَيَقُوْلُ فَعَلْتُ كَذَا وَكَذَا فَيَقُوْلُ مَا صَنَعْتَ شَيْئًا قَالَ ثُمَّ يَجِيْءُ أَحَدُهُمْ فَيَقُوْلُ مَا تَرَكْتُهُ حَتَّى فَرَّقْتُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِهِ قَالَ فَيُدْنِيْهِ مِنْهُ وَيَقُوْلُ نِع مَ أَنْتَ
"Behold the devil put his throne above the water (Ocean) then he sent his army to army. Then the closest to him is the most greatest his slander. Along came one of the army troops and said, "I've done it this way and so". Satan said, "you are absolutely not doing nothing". Then came another and said, "I'm not leaving it (for the subject) until I managed to separate between him and his wife. Then the devil ever approached him and said, "really good (the devil) as you" (narrated by Muslim, IV/2167 No. 2813)
Breakdown of households and divorce greatly favored by the devil. Origin of the law of divorce is hated, so scholars explain the Hadith of warning will divorce
Al-Munawi explains about this Hadith,
إن هذا تهويل عظيم في ذم التفريق حيث كان أعظم مقاصد اللعين لما فيه من انقطاع النسل وانصرام بني آدم وتوقع وقوع الزنا الذي هو أعظم الكبائر
"This shows a very scary warning about censure against divorce. This is the biggest goal (Satan) that accursed because divorce resulted in the breaking of the offspring. His Alone (no spouse husband/wife) son of Adam's descendants will lead them to the fornication that included large sins of inflicting the most damage and complicate "(Faidhul Qadiir II/408)
Damaging a muslim household was called "takhbib". This is a very big sin, in addition there are specific threats, he also has helped the devil to succeed the program misleading mankind.
The form of "takhbib" can be:
Tempting one couple married couples with a valid invite adultery, whether adultery of the eyes, hands or zina's heart so that he becomes the detested with couples legitimately
Wife teasing others by paying attention and affection relation, for example through Message or social media inbox. His wife else was affected because as long as this is probably her husband been busy earning a living in the Office all day.
The form could also tempt others and convinces her husband committed adultery (Winning the men's people).
enrages one of the married couples in order to hate his partner
The ruling often mentions her husband's shortcomings by comparing with her husband or anyone else. But her husband is very good and responsible, just that there is definitely a drawback.
The threat of the sin of doing "takhbib" is present on the following Hadith:
The Messenger of Allaah ' alaihi wa sallam said,
ﻟَﻴْﺲَ ﻣِﻨَّﺎ ﻣَﻦْ ﺧَﺒَّﺐَ ﺍﻣﺮَﺃَﺓً ﻋَﻠَﻰ ﺯَﻭﺟِﻬَﺎ
"Not a part of we, the People who did the takhbib against a woman, so he's fighting." (Narrated by Abu Dawood and classed as Saheeh by al-2175 Albani)
Ad-Dzahabi explains that is damaging to a woman's heart against her husband, He said,
ﺇﻓﺴﺎﺩ ﻗﻠﺐ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺯﻭﺟﻬﺎ
"A woman's Heart Damage against her husband." (Al Kabair, p. 209).
In another, the Messenger of Allaah ' alaihi wa sallam said,
ﻭَﻣَﻦْ ﺃَﻓْﺴَﺪَ ﺍﻣْﺮَﺃَﺓً ﻋَﻠَﻰ ﺯَﻭْﺟِﻬَﺎ ﻓَﻠَﻴْﺲَ ﻣِﻨَّﺎ
"Whoever that is damaging to a woman's relationship with her husband, then he/she is not part of us." (Narrated by Ahmad, Saheeh)
In the book explained that damaging Fiqhiyyah Mawsoo'ah here is the enrages to ask for divorce or causes it (enrages indirectly).
ﻣَﻦْ ﺃَﻓْﺴَﺪَ ﺯَﻭْﺟَﺔَ ﺍﻣْﺮِﺉٍ َﻱْ : ﺃَﻏْﺮَﺍﻫَﺎ ﺑِﻄَﻠَﺐِ ﺍﻟﻄَّﻼَﻕِ ﺃَﻭِ ﺍﻟﺘَّﺴَﺒُّﺐِ ﻓِﻴﻪِ ، ﻓَﻘَﺪْ ﺃَﺗَﻰ ﺑَﺎﺑًﺎ ﻋَﻈِﻴﻤًﺎ ﻣِﻦْ ﺃَﺑْﻮَﺍﺏِ ﺍﻟْﻜَﺒَﺎﺋِﺮِ " ﺍﻧﺘﻬﻰ
"The intention of ruining someone else's wife i.e. enrages to ask for divorce or caused it, then he was placing a huge sin." (Mawsoo'ah Fiqhiyyah 5/291)
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